Colleagues who have worked alongside Abubakari across three different postings describe a consistent pattern: he keeps his family home in Auchi rather than relocating permanently to Benin City or Abuja, and he is known to return most weekends regardless of his official schedule.
He has said this is deliberate — that distance from the community one represents is the first, quiet step toward forgetting who that community actually is. It is a discipline he has tried to carry into every role, from ward-level education officer to state adviser to independent civic monitor.
